the uninvited dont live here so dont bother coming in…

05 Sep



So much apologies for the delay in blog pieces of late. I have been working on a certain blog piece but due to certain things happening in my life i have had to let my blogging take a back seat and look after a few things and get a few things that needed to get done for the last while.  I should give you a heads up this is not my best piece but the content should you either make you laugh cry or even say you know what your fucking right there.

now of late i have had a lot to deal and i dont really want to go into detail of what happened mainly because its a private matter and it would also make me look bad if i started to write about certain things here. So here is my question to you all. What or more importantly why do people always feel the need to well stuck their nose in other peoples business and worse still why do the feel the fucking need to well make certain things about themselves.

Ok here would be one case example in question a few of mine who was dating a rather nice guy decided to tell another friend of hers about the romance and she would only say little things like for example ohh steve was so nice he knew i was sick so he brought me dinner on the way home from work. Before the sentence was even finished her idiot friend ripped her apart ohh fuck you you have such a perfect life with your perfect boy friend dont keep rubbing it in. Her little friend than apologised and said ohh you always get the right guys to fall at your feet and so on. Than when my friend thought the coast was clear my friend got more abuse the am i pretty cute and sexy abuse why dont men like me abuse. So needless to say after 3 hours and endless coffees my friend was frought and well bloody annoyed that this girl had taken up most of her day and than even questioned the fact why should i apologise for bringing up my own life story and what happened the other night.

BUt without going on to much about this subject i think it really boils down to jealously and insecurity and stupid rivalisum which is just beyond childish i really think it is. Now i dont get competative myself and thank jesus christ i must do things in order to make lady luck go my way and so on and so forth. I can happily say i have never waited for such stupid things to come my way. I mean its boring its pointless and if you keep thinking and waiting on things to come your way than its times like that dont make you appriecate certain things at all.

But here is a simple but striking question to you all. why do certain people feel the need to make others feel bad and say things like that and make us doubt the very fibre and being that is us as humans. I think i may have the answer here its pure and sick jealously. Now it goes without saying that im in a very good place and even getting to the point in where i dont spend as much time telling friends certain things about my life. There is even times in where i dont spend time on social networking sites and doing endless tasks and games and the whole thing of gossiping. No i can happily say that i am growing up and moving on and away from childish games of insecurity and jealousy as well.

But i think though with unvited guests be it online with certain social networking sites or be it in real life they are sadly people who need to get and live in a constant stream of demanding attention and in a way i kind of pity them in a lot of ways. Now in recent times i have notice that its sadly some women and in some cases certain men i know that need this attention and more. it all starts off with the modern day fast car which is now the iphone  and than its subtle things like drinking with a younger crowd and telling the same bs stories that people have heard before and in some cases its even trying to blag themselves into a young happening night club just because they can.

But sadly though of late i have noticed certain people i use to hang out with demanding this so called i want you to want me define me love me attention on online and in a way its sad its twee and your also wanting attention because what you deserve it no so this is why of late i have developed this formula for this bollox and bs behaviour i just now ignore people and dont give them anything. when it comes to getting the 20th email of are you not talking to me i just say get fucked and block them aaway. trust me when i say this it actually works and would recommand you all try it.


Posted by on 09/05/2012 in daily rants


3 responses to “the uninvited dont live here so dont bother coming in…

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    11/15/2012 at 4:23 pm

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    • vagab0ndage

      11/22/2012 at 9:45 pm

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